Category Archives: Stories

Here you will find stories written by both the amazing children here at Bright Kids Uganda and by our visitors! These stories show the work we are doing through other’s eyes.

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Volunteer Shares Her Experience at BKU

Isabella Normak came from Sweden to volunteer at Bright Kids Uganda. She arrived on December 27, 2012 and stayed until January 11, 2013. When asked to write about her experience at BKU, Bella wrote a very touching message about the new family she found art Bright Kids and shared some of her beautiful pictures…

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“Surrounded by green hills, a walking distance from the serenity of Lake Victoria, you will find Bright Kids Uganda. The home of 68 children of different ages and from backgrounds, I feel incredibly blessed to have been welcomed to their family.

Bright Kids Uganda is run by Victoria Nalongo Namusisi, or “mami” as the children call her, who I can honestly say is one of the most amazing people I have ever met. Working tirelessly to create a home and provide a future for her children, she performs the job of at least three people – constantly dealing with new challenges.  Her spirit and competence is truly inspiring, and with her hard work she has built a life for children who would not have stood a chance without her.
In the Bright Kids children, I have found friends, brothers and sisters. They possess the most prized qualities, all at once – intelligence, kindness, strength, kinship, bravery, determination, curiosity,  thoughtfulness, but most importantly, a love for one another that is well beyond their years.
In their close knit community they know and cherish what many of us have forgotten – that to be rich is not to have a lot of money, but to have friends and family who take care of and support one another. Thus, I am grateful for the love that I have received and for the love that I gotten the chance to give. The Bright Kids children will forever hold a special place in my heart.”

 

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The Story of Obama

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This is the story of Elijah Obama written by BKU alumni intern Simone Vecchio during her time at Bright Kids during the summer of 2012.

Elijah Obama came to Bright Kids Uganda in 2011 at the age of two as a very sick little boy. His mother is an alcoholic who contracted tuberculosis while she was pregnant with Obama and was nursing him while she was ill. His father, a man from Western Kenya is also an alcoholic living with HIV/AIDS. When Obama first arrived at Bright Kids, he was unable to walk and his belly was so swollen that he was in constant discomfort. Because Obama was ill from the time he was born, he was much smaller than the other babies his age. Victoria quickly began a regimen of deworming and a feeding program to decrease his swollen belly. However, Obama still remained in poor health and was very withdrawn, rarely smiling or playing with the other children. He wanted to be held all the time, not that visiting interns ever minded cuddling with an adorable two-year old. In addition to cold-like symptoms, Obama was constantly burning up and sweating and he had an indescribable odor, even after he was bathed. He also had strange lumps on each side of his neck that were so big, you could actually see them bulging. Over the course of the next year, Obama was taken to several doctors who always seemed to give the same diagnosis; he had pneumonia and suffered from malnutrition. They consistently failed to diagnose him or follow up with his condition. This was puzzling and disheartening to Victoria since she always fed Obama the same as the other children, if not more. Despite his regular feedings, Obama was not putting on weight or getting any bigger.

This past summer, myself and another intern from the University of Pittsburgh, Maria Cruz, became quite attached to little Obama and we were determined to get him properly diagnosed. We took him to Shores Clinic, just a short walk from the BKU compound where we were informed they would test Obama for TB. The clinic took blood, which was a horrible experience for Obama. The look of fear on his face was enough to make me cry. Needless to say, after the poking and prodding Obama was put through, the clinic mismanaged the sample and never even tested for TB. It wasn’t until days later when we called for an update that they told us the sample was no good.

A few weeks later, rather unexpectedly, we just happened to meet a volunteer doctor from the states, Dr. Katey Buck. Dr. Katey said to bring Obama by and she would have a look. When we did, Dr. Katey was rushing to get on a bus to leave the village for good and we literally held Obama out to Dr. Katey. She looked at him for about 5 minutes and after listening to the “rumbling” in his chest and detecting the odor, she said he was “wasting away.” She emphasized the urgency of getting him treated and referred us to another doctor in Mulago Hospital in Kampala.

In the meantime, Maria and I had decided to venture to Rwanda for a long weekend. While at the Genocide Memorial Center, Maria and I met some medical students from the United States. Kathryn Andrews, Ben Campbell, and Rashmi Jasrasaria were interning at Mulago Hospital in Kampala. We exchanged information and they told us to contact them when we got back to Uganda to bring Obama to the hospital.

After we came back from Rwanda, another intern took Obama to another hospital where they did more tests, but still no TB test. After a chest x-ray and more blood work, they confirmed that he had pneumonia. Obama was diagnosed earlier in the year with pneumonia, but had never received proper treatment for the condition. That hospital also referred us to Mulago for further testing. Maria and I took Obama into the city of Kampala to Mulago Hospital, where we met up with the interns who helped us navigate around the hospital and see the right people. They finally performed the TB test. The doctor also referred us to a nutritionist and said that Obama needed a full battery of blood work to check for other conditions. I distinctly remember the doctor saying that the hospital could do the blood work, but he admitted that the testing was not very good so the results may not be reliable and it would take a very long time. He referred us to a medical lab for the blood work. He told us it would be expensive, but I didn’t want to take the chance of bad blood work again or delaying his diagnosis any further. Obama had already been through enough testing and we couldn’t waste any more time getting him healthy.

So we went to the lab where they took blood and a sample of the fluid in his neck where his lymph nodes were swollen. It is very difficult to get blood from Obama’s arms, since they are so tiny. After several attempts they had to take it out of his femoral artery. He was screaming and crying “mama” and Maria had to hold him down while they did the procedure. The lab called the next day to say that one of his samples was not good because the blood had clotted too quickly. So, we took him back 2 days later when we were due to go back to the hospital for the TB results. Fortunately, they were able to draw blood from his arm this time but, not after several attempts. Meanwhile, his other arm was swollen from the TB test, a final confirmation of what we had suspected. I think Maria and I just felt relief. The testing had finally come to an end and we knew Obama was going to be okay. We got him the TB medication, in addition to several others recommended for the pneumonia, fever, and nutritional supplements…4 in all.

Within 2 weeks of taking the medication, there was a noticeable difference in Obama. Many of his symptoms began to disappear. His breathing was better, he no longer felt like he was burning up, nor was he sweating constantly, and the odor had disappeared. Obama is still very small but he should continue to grow now that his body is able to absorb the nutrients from food. His demeanor had changed completely. He no longer looks sad or stares off into space and he is interacting with the other children. One of the biggest changes I noticed is that Obama was smiling a lot more. Victoria reports that Obama now follows Richard around every morning helping to feed the chickens. Probably, the best day I spent at BKU this summer was on August 8th celebrating Obama’s 3rd birthday and it was truly a reason to celebrate. I was so thankful that Maria and I were finally able to get Obama diagnosed so that he can begin to get healthy and have a bright future.

The experience was really eye opening for me in terms of seeing the failure of the healthcare system in Uganda. For a year this child was put through countless testing without any results or follow-up care for an easily treatable disease that he could have very well died from. While I am not a parent myself, I am able to better understand the experience and feeling of helplessness that many parents in Uganda must feel as they try to seek medical attention for their children. Obama’s experience is a perfect example illustrating why the new medical clinic at BKU is critical to keeping our children healthy and cared for. I am convinced that Maria and I had many angels working with us, like Dr. Katey and the medical interns and that, each time we happened to run into those angels, we were exactly where we were meant to be.

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Suzan Akello, Current Daughter of Bright Kids Uganda

This is my life story…

I came from Lira but I was only there for a few years. Now, I am in Bright Kids Uganda home. I used to stay in the place called Internally Displaced Peoples Camp where many people used to live and many houses were there. Because of the war which took place in the northern part of Lira, my father was poor, he was unable to pay for my school fees. My father’s cows, goats, and hens were taken. In this war, many people lost their lives and some got terrible diseases. But God can’t leave his people suffering. The government of Lira chose a place to put the people who are running away from the village to town. They used to come and supply food to the people in that area as they were coming. There came a woman who used to cut people’s hair and provide porridge to them. They used to fight for porridge. The woman started teaching scouting to the kids, but for me, I was young and too weak to join the scouts. When she was going back, she sent a man to take some of the kids who were suffering there and I was one of them.

When they told me that I was going, I was very blissful because I was going to school. On reaching there, I thought that we were only five but I found different faces and they loved us so much. They bought for us uniforms and school bags. In the morning they took us to school nearby. Mummy was building a home for us and after two years we went to our house. We used to call it “Our New Home” and we stayed there for a few months. We were taken to Kampala and we were very happy to go to Kampala. But when I reached there I was sick for two weeks because I was not used to the weather of this place and sitting for so long in the car. After two weeks, I went to school at St. Mary Kevin and I was in P2. It took long for me to learn Luganda because I was used to my local language. I learned slowly by slowly and now I can speak it more than my local language. I was not used to staying with so many children. I got used to it slowly by slowly and I felt very well in Bright Kids Uganda home. Now, I can read and write. Even our mummy loves us so much as she loves herself. We enjoy singing, dancing, and so many activities and we learned more because I never knew how to dance and sing but now I can do it better. I thank our mummy very much for supporting us with love and care and protecting us with education.

May God bless you.

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Bugembe Medi, BKU alumni

Bugembe Medi is a member of the Bright Kids Family. He was one of the first children who Victoria rescued from the streets of Kampala in 2000 and lived at BKU until 2009. Today, he is 22 years old, an accomplished gospel singer, and running his own children’s home in Kampala. Bugembe’s children’s home, Reaching Street Kids Uganda was opened in 2009 and shelters 30 children. When asked what made him decide to open a children’s home, Bugembe replied, “Some years back as I left BKU after my studies, I decided to do what mum did for us and show them what mum showed us. Since I was on the streets for some years, I went to visit where I used to be. I knew that life was not simple, that it was harsh and I didn’t want them to pass through the same situation I did.” Bugembe remembers life at BKU when he was here. He explains, “The situation was unpredictable. We think everything will be on a silver plate. We don’t want to suffer. We expected good meals every day but didn’t want to work. We just wanted the best all the time.” Those early days at BKU were difficult. There were no sponsorships and sometimes the children only had one meal a day. Bugembe started Reaching Street Kids without any outside donors or help. He just had the help and support of Victoria. The organization not only provides for the 30 children who reside there, but also extends its outreach to the other 600 orphans in the community. Bugembe regularly goes back to the schools where he started from to talk about his project. When Bugembe was asked what being at Bright Kids meant to him, his response was, “If it wasn’t for Mami, maybe I would be on the streets or dead. Many people are dying on the streets. I thank God she helped us.”

Shannon Holmes, BKU Visitor 2012

I am blessed to have a mother that provided for all my needs, and fulfilled most of my wants. The Bright Kids of Uganda are, in the same way, blessed. Their BKU mom, Ms. Victoria Nolongo, ensures they have meals, shelter, education, and medical needs; more importantly, though, Victoria provides warm hugs, prayer, and a place to call home. Like any loving mother, all of Victoria’s time is spent toward caring and providing for her children.

During my time at Bright Kids Uganda, I had the pleasure of meeting children who are alive because of Victoria and BKU. I met children who have education because of BKU. I was inspired by women and men who are gainfully employed and self-sufficient because of Victoria and BKU. As Victoria explained, BKU is not an orphanage; it is a home for children. In this home, love for each other, God, and their community is evident. While the full potential of BKU is not yet realized, every day, including the days I was there, steps are made in the direction of progress. New walls built; jewelry made and sold; cows brought home from the field; prayers and praises raised; meals prepared; baths taken; visits to the market; all of the seemingly mundane and everyday tasks of any home also take place at BKU. I cannot, or maybe I wish to not, imagine where Obama, Linnet, Sharon, Sheila, Arnold, or Vincent would be had it not been for BKU.

Victoria and BKU are held with high regard in their village, and throughout Uganda, and it is not surprise why.